Love Style Assessment

How to Use the Love Style Assessment

This assessment draws on the theory of love styles proposed by psychologist John Lee. Before taking the assessment, here is a brief overview. Lee identified six distinct types of love.

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A playful approach to love. Relationships are treated like a game — the process of pursuit and the thrill of the chase matter more than commitment.

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A practical approach to love. Emphasis is placed on a partner's suitability — income, education, family background, and long-term compatibility.

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A friendship-based approach to love. Shared interests, companionship, and spending time together are valued above all else.

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A selfless approach to love. Joy comes from giving — devoting oneself to a partner's wellbeing and happiness.

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An intuition-driven approach to love. Romantic expression, passion, and physical and emotional intensity are central to what love means.

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An all-consuming approach to love. Once feelings develop, everything else fades into the background — love becomes the central focus of life.

How to Read Your Results

After completing the assessment, you will receive a result for each of the six love styles — rated as High, Moderate, or Low. Each style is accompanied by an explanation of its strengths and points to be aware of.

Recommended articles are also included for each style. We hope you find them useful.



How This Test Was Developed

Below is a detailed explanation of how this Love Style Assessment was developed. Please read if you would like a deeper understanding.

① Analysis of Prior Research
② Question Items
③ Scoring Criteria
④ Evaluation of Results
⑤ Limitations of This Scale
⑥ References
About the Developers
Tatsushi Kawashima

Graduate School of Psychology, Mejiro University

National Licensed Psychologist (Japan)

Certified Psychiatric Social Worker (Japan)

Mikiko Kamei

Graduate School of Human Sciences, Waseda University

Certified Clinical Psychologist (Japan)

National Licensed Psychologist (Japan)