What Are Adult Children?
The term "Adult Children" refers to adults whose early experiences in dysfunctional families continue to influence their lives. Environments marked by neglect, unrealistic expectations, violence, or addiction can have lasting effects on self-esteem and interpersonal relationships.
This assessment measures Adult Children tendencies across six key dimensions.
Family Dysfunction
A home environment in which some form of dysfunction prevented healthy emotional expression and connection.
Persistent Memory
Early family experiences that continue to weigh on you emotionally in the present.
Unstable Self-Worth
Feeling inherently inadequate, or being highly sensitive to others' opinions and personal failures.
Emotional Suppression
A tendency to hold back genuine feelings and conform to others rather than expressing yourself freely.
Difficulty in Relationships
Avoiding deep connections and feeling anxious about trust and intimacy with others.
Excessive Responsibility
Overextending yourself for others to the point of self-sacrifice, and finding it hard to ask for help.
Before You Begin
This assessment may bring up difficult memories from your past. Please use it with care, as it touches on sensitive topics. If you are currently struggling emotionally, we recommend waiting until you feel more settled before proceeding.
How This Assessment Was Developed
The following section explains the step-by-step process used to create this ACoA assessment. We invite those who want a deeper understanding to read on.
① ACoA: Background and History
In 1955, the American Medical Association (AMA) officially recognized alcoholism as a disease, marking a turning point in how addiction was treated and understood. This recognition opened the door to exploring the psychological impact on families and the intergenerational transmission of dysfunction. [1]
In 1969, Canadian researcher Margaret Cork published The Forgotten Children, drawing attention to the struggles faced not only by people with alcohol dependency, but by their children as well. [2]
During the 1970s, the term "Adult Children of Alcoholics" began to emerge among clinicians and patients alike. In 1983, educator Janet G. Woititz published Adult Children of Alcoholics, which brought the concept into mainstream awareness. [3]
Originally applied to families affected by alcoholism, the concept gradually expanded to include any household marked by abuse, excessive pressure, or other forms of dysfunction — ultimately encompassing what we now call dysfunctional families more broadly.
John Bradshaw's 1988 work further detailed the emotional consequences experienced by children raised in such environments, helping to solidify ACoA theory in popular and clinical discourse. [4]
ACoA individuals are often characterized by emotional suppression, excessive self-responsibility, and avoidance of close relationships — patterns that frequently persist into adulthood.
From the 1980s through the 1990s, support for ACoA individuals grew significantly, with increases in psychotherapy options and peer support groups. Today, the ACoA framework remains an important focus in psychology and counseling.
② Review of Prior Research
The following studies were reviewed in developing the ACoA scale used in this assessment.
· Woititz (1983) [3]
In Adult Children of Alcoholics, Woititz identified key traits common among ACoA individuals, including emotional suppression, excessive self-responsibility, and avoidance of close relationships.
· Bradshaw (1988) [4]
Bradshaw examined the far-reaching effects of dysfunctional family environments, identifying behavioral patterns such as codependency, loss of personal agency, and denial as characteristic of these households.
· Sasano et al. (1998) [5]
In researching the relationship between dysfunctional families and ACoA tendencies, Sasano and colleagues developed a single-factor ACoA scale, which informed our approach.
③ How the Questions Were Designed
Licensed psychologists, clinical psychologists, and graduate-level psychology professionals conducted a series of brainstorming sessions. Items were then grouped using the KJ method and refined through expert review. The final scale comprises six factors with four questions each, as listed below.
- 【Family Dysfunction】
- Our home was not a place where emotions could be freely expressed
- Someone in the family had emotional outbursts
- A family member was controlling or domineering
- Home did not feel like a safe or secure place
- 【Persistent Memory】
- My family's attitudes from childhood still stay with me today
- My relationship with my family continues to be a source of emotional burden
- I pushed myself to meet my family's expectations
- I made decisions based on how my family might react
- 【Unstable Self-Worth】
- I often feel that I lack value as a person
- I am strongly influenced by how others evaluate me
- I hold back from taking action because I lack confidence in myself
- I keep blaming myself even for small mistakes
- 【Emotional Suppression】
- I find it hard to express my true feelings honestly
- I tend to go along with others rather than saying what I really think
- I keep holding back sadness and anger
- I suppress my emotions and deal with them internally
- 【Difficulty in Relationships】
- I feel a sense of distance even from people I am close to
- I tend to avoid getting deeply involved with others
- I am overly conscious of how others see me
- Even when I trust someone, I easily feel that they will betray me
- 【Excessive Responsibility】
- I try to solve other people's problems as if they were my own
- I feel like I have to be the one to work hard
- I put others first even at the expense of myself
- I hesitate to ask others for help
④ Scoring Criteria
· Number of items: 6 factors × 4 questions each
· 5-point scale
Not at all true 0 points
Mostly not true 1 point
Neutral 2 points
Somewhat true 3 points
Very true 4 points
· Per-factor rating thresholds
13–16 points: Poor 9–12 points: Fair 0–8 points: Healthy range
· Overall ACoA tendency
75–96 points: Strong ACoA tendencies
59–74 points: Moderate ACoA tendencies
43–58 points: Mild ACoA tendencies
0–42 points: Little to no ACoA tendencies
⑤ Interpreting Your Results
Each result type is described in approximately 1,000 characters, covering key characteristics and areas to be mindful of. The descriptions were written based on prior research and the clinical experience of the assessment's authors.
⑥ Limitations of This Assessment
This assessment has not undergone formal factor analysis or statistical validation of reliability and validity. It reflects expert judgment and clinical insight, but should not be considered a research-grade instrument. Please be aware that the statistical basis is limited and this tool is intended for self-reflection purposes only.
⑦ References
[1] American Medical Association (1955). Alcoholism: An Illness. Journal of the American Medical Association, 158(11), 970–973.
[2] Cork, M. (1969). The Forgotten Children: A Study of Children with Alcoholic Parents. Toronto: Macmillan.
[3] Woititz, J. G. (1983). Adult Children of Alcoholics. Deerfield Beach, FL: Health Communications.
[4] Bradshaw, J. (1988). Bradshaw On: The Family: A New Way of Creating Solid Self-Esteem. Health Communications.
[5] Sasano, T., & Tsukahara, T. (1998). A study on mental health of university students: Dysfunctional families and adult children. Kawasaki Medical Welfare Journal, 8(1), 107–114.
Assessment Authors
Tatsushi Kawashima
· Graduate School of Psychology, Mejiro University
· Certified Psychologist, Psychiatric Social Worker
Mikiko Kamei
· Graduate School of Human Sciences, Waseda University
· Clinical Psychologist, Certified Psychologist